Unspoken rules of kitesurfing etiquette

When you’re out on the water, it’s not just about catching the wind and pulling off the sickest tricks. Kitesurfing is a community-driven sport, and knowing how to navigate that community can make or break your session. While there are plenty of articles about technical skills and gear advice, let’s talk about the unspoken rules of kitesurfing etiquette — the stuff no one tells you, but everyone expects you to know.

1. Don’t launch like a lunatic

Launching your kite is the first impression you’ll make, so don’t botch it. Make sure you’re clear of other kites, lines, and people before sending your kite skyward. Double-check your lines and connections beforehand; no one wants to pause their session to rescue you because you’ve created a spaghetti mess. Oh, and don’t be a dick and stand too far upwind—that’s a surefire way to annoy your launcher.

Bonus tip: If someone helps you launch, a quick “thank you” or thumbs-up goes a long way.

2. Respect the right of way

Here’s the deal: the kiter on starboard tack (right hand forward) has the right of way. But this doesn’t mean you can plow through someone’s path just because you’re technically correct. Look ahead, anticipate others’ movements, and try not to be that person who causes unnecessary drama.

The point is, you can also give the right of way even if you have it. But sometimes, take it — some people need to learn they’re not the king of the water.

3. Stay clear of beginners

Remember what it was like when you were learning? Your kite went everywhere except where you wanted it to. Give beginners extra space, and if you’re feeling generous, offer some encouragement instead of judgment. A little kindness can turn their day around.

So, if you want to survive, keep a goooooood distance from beginners (or the Germans with yellow helmets). But always cheer them on!

4. Don’t hog the sweet spot

We get it. That one flat section with perfect wind is dreamy. But it’s dreamy for everyone else, too. Rotate through the prime spots and share the love. Hogging the best area makes you an instant villain in the eyes of your fellow riders.

If you’ve got a rhythm going with the other riders, keep it. Wait your turn to jump. And don’t forget to throw some thumbs-up for an amazing trick.

5. Watch out for those gnarly jumpers

Jumpers have a bit of an attitude (says the wave rider, aka me). Wave riders too, by the way. Even if you have the right of way, check to make sure no one’s about to send it and land right on top of you.

Of course, jumpers should check first, but being the good guy (just sometimes), steer away from them. Or better yet, find a different spot where they’re not flying through the air like caffeinated dolphins.

6. Become a board warrior

Accidents happen. But what’s better than someone bringing your board back? Amazing. At some spots, it’s even rude not to do it. If you’re comfortable, bring it close to the person. Not? Just point out where their board is. Trust me, they’ll appreciate it.

7. Cheer others on

Kitesurfing isn’t just a sport; it’s a vibe. If you see someone nail a trick or hit a perfect jump, give them a cheer or a nod. Positive vibes are contagious, and you might just make someone’s day.

Also, in that same spirit, help people out. Assist with a launch or landing. It takes barely any time and could make someone’s session. Be the stoke spreader! Others will follow.

8. The "oops, my bad" rule

If you accidentally cut someone off, get in their way, or send your kite into someone’s lines, own up to it. A quick apology—even a shouted “Sorry!”—can defuse most situations.

While you might be tempted to yell across the waves, most kitesurfers understand a few simple gestures. Pointing to your lines or kite signals a need for help. A raised hand can mean thanks or an apology. Use the universal language of stoke to keep things friendly.

9. Keep the beach clean – Monkey see, monkey do

Your session doesn’t end when you pack up your kite. Take a look around and make sure you’re leaving the beach better than you found it. Pick up any trash (even if it’s not yours), and if you’re feeling heroic, rescue that stray plastic bag floating in the water.

We all use the water and nature, so let’s treasure these places a bit more. Even one piece of trash can make a difference. And remember: Monkey see, monkey do. If you pick up trash, others might follow your lead.

10. Remember: the water is for everyone

It’s easy to get territorial, especially on crowded days. But the ocean doesn’t belong to any one person or group. Whether it’s swimmers, paddleboarders, or fishermen, respect their space and expect them to respect yours.

Mastering these unspoken rules isn’t just about being a good kitesurfer; it’s about being a good human. The more we all follow these guidelines, the more enjoyable every session becomes. So the next time you hit the water, keep these tips in mind. You’ll not only avoid drama but might even earn yourself a few new friends.

xox Berit